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Non-Judgemental Male Escort - Sandton
Monday, 22 September 2025
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Sandton, Gauteng
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I am not here to judge. I am very discreet and confidential - I reassure you that what happens between us will be treated with utmost confidential that is why I prefer not to exchange photos, but I will share mine on request at least you have an idea of what you are meeting. I will never ask any of my clients to share their photos, but I can share mine on request. I will never ask any of my clients to pay before meeting. I mean what I say. I am open and honest. I would say I cater to all races, but I only have met mostly black women and coloured women, and I also understand it's about choices and preferences and safety and fear of the unknown, I guess. 90% of women I meet are married I might as well and say I only cater to married women; I also understand that a lot of married women are really starved at home and also, I understand their predicament of being stuck in a sexless marriage and be forced to look on the outside. I have really developed a soft spot for married women. I feel sad and empathise with them. I am emotionally intelligent because of them - made me realize it's just not about sex, but attention, affection and appreciation they are not getting at home. I have become the guy that fills in the gap. When I started, I was doing no strings attached services it has now turned into strings attached service I must really be an animal to be able to do a no strings as I meet a lot of married women who need care, shoulder to cry on, affection, attention and appreciation. The stories I get to hear has turned me into a loving and caring gentleman. Also, I have realised that this not really about me but the women I get to meet. Very beautiful and amazing women. I have the spirit of Ubuntu and practice it 100%. Even with single women its more than the sex - they want someone to talk to. Someone who would listen to them vent without complaints or judgement. They can be themselves around me without the fear of being judged. Someone who will understand them. Our time is not a wham and bang - it's a chill session between two consenting adults, chatting, talking and getting to know each other as a result our session is not timed cause an hour might not be long enough, I don't want any of my clients feel rushed. I also take private calls for those who want to be really discreet. I host and travel, but I am wary to go to ladies' houses - I also think of having to jump walls or jump from second floor - you know what I mean. I am not looking for models (Models are nice to looking I would be lying if I say otherwise) or don't have any body preferences - most women are very uncomfortable about their bodies - even more when that they will be seen by a stranger - they have the fear that they will be judged. I must admit the women I meet are very beautiful with very beautiful bodies, sometimes I pinch myself. I hardly meet plus-size, or full-figured women, maybe because they often face social stigma around dating, body shaming, or not feeling accepted. Maybe they assume I will only be interested in slim clients, I don't know. I don't discriminate I will meet any women of any body types or ages as long as you are over 18 and less than 100. My typical client ages are 20-40s. 50s and above very rare to none they also assume they will be judged because of society that men prefer younger women. I have met a lady in her 60s, she told me she tried other escorts before me, and they were turned off when she told them her age and she was nicely surprised by me that I was not turned off by her age. I cater to any women who reach out to me. Like fine wine women get better with age. I have also met a pregnant woman and a woman amputated at the knee. I am all-inclusive and all encompassing. I will never judge anyone and honestly, I don't have the time or energy for that. With most women it's all about safety, confidentiality, nonjudgment. I make them feel safe around me. I also met women who did want sex but companionship where they would call me when they want to talk and want to someone to talk to and cry over the phone. I also provide a nonsexual services for those who just want to talk. I have also taken a role of a therapist over the years - I listen and understand and don't judge. I had conversations with white and Indian women, most of their questions would be have I met a White or Indian women - I have done meets and greets at some public place, but it only ended there. There is that fear they have I guess. I meet a lot of couples or let me say a lot of black couples - it is refreshing actually that a black man can intentionally say I want to watch you fuck my wife. I must say I enjoy my line of work. I always get the same adrenaline I got from my first ever client. It's thrilling to me and satisfying but I am all about customer satisfaction she must enjoy this more than me otherwise what would be point. The other thing I have learnt about the women I meet as much as it is about them, they also get the satisfaction that they made me cum. The other lady told me I must also cum. I also get to be asked if I muff. I love and enjoy muffing, and I even get disappointed when I meet a woman who does not want to be muffed. I have the stamina and the energy for this. I also keep a lube. I adapt to the personality of the women I meet; some are shy and some of open. I keep my toilet clean as I have noticed 90% will ask to first use the toilet. 90% Of women we have kissed, and I am a good kisser. I stay alone. I try tidy up my place. I brush my teeth and take shower before each meeting. Some clients enjoy blowing me - who can blame them as I have a beautiful dick. They must be able to suck a clean dick. I am willing to meet at a public place at no obligation to make one comfortable. I have been to a lot of dinner dates, so you do not have a reason for solo dates. I can speak about anything and everything. I am social runner. I run on most of the Sunday marathons. I was at the waterfall one. Most of the clients we have actually become friends and also understand when it's a tough month financially so we would have an arrangement. I mostly meet middle to very high-end clients. I can't really put a value to this - I only put a value if someone insists, I normally will prefer someone to put an offer after the session. I see it as giving someone a tip after a great service. The value of the tip is based on your satisfaction. I have those clients who do not ask, they will be like hey I want your services and after meeting and they also do not ask they just give based on their satisfaction. I am really all about giving the best services and the best service can only be determined by the client based on if I ticked most of their boxes. I appreciate reviews because they can only make me be better. I strive to be better than the normal guy on the street. Or your boyfriend or husband - there has to be a difference really otherwise what would be the point. I will never be offended when I get a negative review I will learn from it and try to it better. I will not promise that I will bang you until the pussy hurts - rather I will give it to you how you like it. There are some who like missionary, there are some who like doggie, etc. I adapt to you really. If any point when you are at my place you don't feel comfortable - you have no obligation to stay. You would have not wasted my time. I have enough time. I also understand these come with the job. I am very chilled. Most women who come to my place get surprised that we can chill and talk. You can even bring your favourite wine and chill - tell me about your life and anything about you. I am very curious about getting to know the ladies that come to my place. Tell me things you would not tell your friends. Like the pastor's wife who said she is addicted porn - I told her there is nothing wrong also she is not addicted it's just something she loves. I try to make the meeting very comfortable - not judgy - not awkward. Most women are very curious, and they have thought of a male escort - but they have doubts, hesitant, shy, ashamed, embarrassed - with me you can forget about that. I bet you to come to my place - we chill - we talk and if it's not for you I will accept your decision - no hidden costs. I must say I meet a lot of women from Pretoria - I am starting think maybe escorts from Pretoria are bad - I dont know. All am saying you are in good hands, and I stand by it. I met 2 married friends from Pretoria, and we had a 3somes- they enjoyed it. I get busy so if I don't answer ASAP, I will definitely come back to you - it will be worth the wait. I am available 24/7 but I am bad sleeper, so you are more than welcome to call me to wake me up.I think I covered most - oh yes I have done it at public places - the adrenaline rush of trying not to be seen is satisfying. I am all about adrenaline, dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphins .