Open and Honest Male Escort - Sandton

My take on being an escort:

Society often attaches shame, and judgment to the idea of seeing an escort even though the need behind it is very human. People assume it’s purely physical, but in reality, many clients (especially women) seek emotional connection, attention, and understanding things they may not be getting in their daily lives or relationships. Most women say " I cant tell my friends cause they will judge me". Meeting an escort doesn’t automatically make someone immoral but I understand the stigma the society has attached to it. Some women felt ashamed and embarrassed, but its not in the 1800s. But at its heart, meeting an escort especially one who truly cares can be an act of emotional liberation. Also the feeling that you are paying for sex. For women the idea of paying for intimacy can feel uncomfortable, wrong, or taboo. Society has conditioned us to believe that love, affection, or connection should happen naturally or freely, not through a service. But here’s the deeper truth you’re not paying for sex, but presence, care, safety, and attention something that’s often missing daily life or relationships.

About me:

I am that kind of a guy who does not give a fcuck. I am take me as I am . No faking. No pretending. I am that guy who does not worry about what are people going to say.

I am all about the release of Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin, and Endorphins. An adrenaline junkie. If you find me in the right mood I am in on anything. I am open minded and free spirited. I love exploring new things. I am all about fun. I am that guy would would do it in the back seat of the car or sneak into the clubs bathroom and have a spontaneous romp there. I cannot read minds, you tell me exactly what you want so that I can meet your expectations. I have zero judgement. I encourage all women to leave their comfort zone and explore their fantasies. I am here to make them come to reality.

Discretion and boundaries:

I am all about discretion, consent, respect and exploring things and pushing the boundaries. Putting boundaries. And respecting boundaries.

I have the passion for this:

Everything about me is about the the mood , emotion , passion, lust, thrill and more mood and the right condition. If you find me in the right mood and the condition is right I may do something I had thought I would never do it.

Here to make long lasting friendship:

As much as this is about the business I am also looking for lady friends. We will be besties. We will separate the business and the friendship . Sometimes I need to talk to someone about my escapades. You will also tell me about your life and how your day went.

I cater to:

All women from different backgrounds and different races. All body types and all ages(Young and old as in 20 and 60s). I have been with women in their 20s and 60s.

What I can do:

Chill and talk and get to know each other. I muff(I love muffing) and I do anal on request. 3somes with 2 women or more. 3somes with a couple.


I fulfill fantasies:

I got requests from a ladies who wanted to fulfill their fantasy of being done at mall toilets - fucken thrilling that one - we were worried what if we get caught at the same time the thrill and adrenaline rush of doing something that is forbidden.

Adaptive and willing to explore:

I would try something new once , twice if i like it.

I am not a narcissist

If you want to do some nasty stuff I will never make you feel dirty, I will encourage you.

I am a Loverboy:

I love women and their womanly things. I lust over women - I am full of lust. I adore women. I worship women and the ground they walk on.

Plus one:

Lets go to farmers market or some live event.


Dinner date:

I have seen some women around Sandton having a solo dates. I can hold an intelligent conversation:


Cuddle buddy:

The closeness. The touching. The body heat. Feel each others hearts beating. The pillow talk.

Running buddy:

I am a social runner. We can run together.

Gym buddies:

I am close to most gyms around Sandton and also waterfall but I am willing to travel

Vent buddy:

You had a hectic day, your boss was mean or your colleague was funny, had a fight with hubby or you have just having one of those mood swings day.


My fetishes:

Married and pregnant women.

I like danger, or maybe the thrill of doing something that is forbidden that is why I also get a thrill in sleeping with married women - when I see a woman on the street or gym wearing a ring I just get turned on - a volcano of lust erupts in my head - I am also fully aware that married women are going through a lot - they are being starved and ignored at home - for some the husband is cheating or diabetic but most married men cheat more than single men.


Non judgemental approach:

I have with married women. Pregnant women. Woman with disabilities.


I am a voyeur and exhibitionist :

I love watching and being watched - I get the same pleasure in watching the same I get in doing it. I love watching myself in the mirror while doing it, I even wink at myself one of those silly things.

I think if most husbands were good to their wives I would be out of business. In the lifestyle I have been with all the races and I had thought in the escort business it would be same but 95% I get requests from my black people which I understand.

What I have learnt:

I hardly get calls from big women - I feel like they are embarrassed about their bodies and low on confidence. I also understand they are called names I would not mention. I call on you ladies to come be celebrated.

Reach out and if you find me in the right mood I may go along with it. I have met a mother and daughter but at different times. Only realized when the mother showed me her daughter's photos but I never told her I been with her daughter.

Married women are going through the pits — emotionally, mentally, and silently. Very lonely in their marriages.

Typical clients:

I mostly meet women between 20 - 40 then a sprinkle 50s, and 60s I know older women overthink things you know, they feel like they cannot be sleeping with younger men . Most black women. Followed by coloured women . Then Indian women. White women - they reach out but hesitant to meet and there is nothing I can do about that. I have been with some business women. Politicians. Musicians. I just pretend as if I don't know them unless someone tell me who they are.

I am a therapist:

I have also taken a role of a therapist - just sitting there intently listening to someone tell me about what they are going through - I have a lot of empathy. I have a lot of passion about my business and I take it very serious. So yeah that is me in a nutshell - I love making a difference in someone's life. Bring some happiness, enjoyment and fun.